Hobbies Can Improve Your Mental Health

Photography as a hobby, studying black and white

Contributed by Julie Morris, photos by Mary Jane Farmer

Your overall quality of life depends on your mental well-being. When you take care of this part of yourself, you are able to deal with stress more effectively. You work more productively and make more meaningful contributions to the world. When you take care of your mental health, you are able to fulfill your potential and find more joy in your life.

There are many ways we can proactively care for our cognitive selves. Many people need to seek out help during particularly tough times. That help can range from psychological evaluation to medication; it all depends on the person. However, there are some things everybody can do to improve their health. Practicing mindfulness meditation can help reduce stress and ease anxiety. Regular exercise doesn’t just keep your body fit, it also makes you feel better as it releases endorphins into your system.

Another way to maintain your mental health is to pick up a healthy hobby. Hobbies help you add a bit of structure to your life. Humans thrive when there is routine in their lives. A hobby also gives a person a sense of purpose and motivation. When you complete something or learn something new, there is a feeling of accomplishment that boosts self-esteem and increases happiness. Picking up a hobby can help someone recovering from a mental illness -— like addiction— refocus, which helps the overall healing process. Here are a few easy-to-begin hobbies that help people with their overall mental well-being.

Making Art

Tapping into your creative side and getting a little messy with an art project is a great way to create a visual representation of the emotions you are feeling, as well as tell your story. We all have a narrative to tell, and for some, it is much easier to express using mediums such as paint, clay, chalk, and markers. The beauty in creating art is that there is no right or wrong way to do it, so it is a hobby that you control and cultivate on your own. Just be sure you’ve created a space where you can really let loose without worrying about making a mess, and keep your supplies organized — clutter can cause stress, and this should be an area that makes you feel free and inspired.

Playing an Instrument

Picking up an instrument not only brings music into your life, but it helps your brain function more efficiently. Studies show that playing an instrument can help prevent dementia and even depression. Researchers at the University of St. Andrews found amateur musicians possess sharper minds and are quicker to correct mistakes than non-musicians.

Fingerpickin’ as a hobby

Playing music also offers social perks. Socializing is necessary for mental health recovery. Playing music helps you connect with people, whether you join a band, play for others, or just talk with fellow musicians.

Dancing

For many people, dancing is a celebration of life. It combines the feel-good hormones of exercise with the cognitive benefits of music. Joining a dance class puts you in a community of people who are all working to achieve a goal while also having a fun time.

Gardening

Psychologists have long lauded gardening for its ability to help us heal. When you get out in the garden and get your hands dirty, you get a healthy dose of mood-boosting vitamin D on top of some light exercise. Gardening also gives a person a sense of responsibility and connects them to other living things. Reconnecting with the earth promotes mindfulness and can help shape a healthier perspective on the world. Some experts even praise gardening for reminding us about the cycle of life, which helps us cope with the anxiety we feel when we think about death.

Cooking

Cooking is a great way to incorporate a hobby into a busy lifestyle. Everyone needs to eat, and it’s universally accepted that cooking your own food is healthier than dining out. Making yourself cook your meals instills much needed structure in your life while also allowing room for creativity.

Writing

Yet another form of visual expression is writing, whether it is journaling, blogging, or storytelling. Taking up a pen and paper (or sitting down at your computer) can help you get out those thoughts bouncing around in your head. You can write about your day, make a plan for how you are going to tackle a particular project, or even write the first chapter of a book. Perhaps you could use a daily journal or blog as a means of checking in with your feelings and emotions to identify any problem areas and keep track of your progress as you work through them.

Dancing — starting at an early age.

Reading

If you are looking for a way to truly escape for a brief moment from your busy schedule and accompanying stress, taking the time to get lost in a book is the ticket. It seems that when we are younger, we are so eager to read, but time is of the essence in the adult world, and reading falls by the wayside. Pick up a good book, or join a book club for a little extra socialization. You can even use this new hobby as a way of learning about another one, or simply expand your knowledge on a particular subject that interests you.

Caring for your mental health is necessary for a happy, fulfilled life. Incorporating a hobby into your daily routine is an easy and enjoyable way to care for your cognitive self. A hobby helps a person refocus in times of recovery, so the process is easier and more enjoyable. Choosing a new hobby doesn’t have to be difficult. Whether you are picking up a new instrument or taking the time to cook for yourself each day, a hobby helps you lead a healthier life.

CD Review-George Ensle “Home”

CD Review, “Home”, George Ensle, Independent/Berkalin Records

Sometimes the best music come unexpectedly. George Ensle has been producing good — no, make that great — music for decades, and this newest of his CDs, Home, is perhaps the best of them all.

Ensle either wrote or co-wrote all the songs on this 10-song project, and has some of the best co-writers one could ever ask for on his side. Tony Ramey co-wrote “Black Sheep,” a song about “the prodigal, always on the run…  black sheep always need a second chance.” And Chuck Hawthorne added his pen to one of my favorites on this project, “Gloves.” This tune is reminiscent of Guy Clark’s “Randall Knife,” yet not the same at all. The gloves were a gift from his dad when he set out to be on his own. “Wear ‘em for the greater good, and always remember, son, Always build God’s kingdom…” And a verse about how he failed when he wasn’t wearing them. And “through the years I mended fences every chance I had, and I rebuilt old foundations when they were going bad.” Lines of really growing up, growing in maturity. Lessons in life. And “All I Need,”co-written with Richard Dobson, is a song of answered prayers. “I asked for strength, and I got troubles to get me straight and strong, asked for wisdom and I got problems that taught me right from wrong… I asked for mercy and I got an old friend who needed a second chance, I got all I wanted when I got all I need.” And as I’ve listened to this CD over and over again — it’s that good — I would think with one song “That’s my favorite,” and then another song will play and it’s be, “No, wait‚ that one’s my favorite.” Ad infinitum. But, it’s settled now… my favorite is “Old Windmill Waltz,” and maybe that’s because hardly anybody every writes, plays, or sings waltzes any more. Well, George Ensle did.

Ensle has a voice that puts sweetness and sincerity in every lyric. Harmonies are added by other sweet voices such as those of Christine Albert and Kristin DeWitt. And the who’s who of the Texas Hill Country provides instrumentation.

Home is available on Ensle’s Website, GeorgeEnsle.com and on most streaming sites. He normally plays around the Texas Hill Country, and is due to play Harmony House Concerts in the Bonham area on July 6.

Mary Jane Farmer, Scene In Town

GCSO finds large amount of meth

By Mary Jane Farmer

The Grayson County Sheriff’s Office arrested two people on April 3 on several charges, including felony drug charges.

GCSO Lt. Sarah Bigham, public information officer, said that on April 3, Sheriff’s Office investigators conducted a traffic stop on a vehicle in Van Alstyne, at U.S. Highway 75 and FM 121. The driver, a 32-year-old man showing on jail records to be from Sherman, attempted to hide drugs he had on his person, but the officers found them, which were reportedly about 5 grams of methamphetamine. He went to jail on charges of possession of controlled substance between 1-4 grams and of tampering with physical evidence.

That same day, with information received with the suspect’s arrest, the Sheriff’s Office obtained a search warrant on a residence in the 500 block of Borrow Way, near Kelly Lane, near Van Alstyne. There, several deputies and investigators served that warrant and conducted their search. They found more than 300 grams of liquid methamphetamine inside the house.

Bigham said they arrested a 43-year-old woman at the house on a felony charge of possession of controlled substance more than 400 grams. Records show that she was already on bail from previous charges of assault causing bodily injury-family violence, filed in December by Van Alstyne police, and insurance fraud between $2,500-$30,000, filed in February by GCSO. The bond company of those charges revoked her bail and those were reset at a total of $7,500, in addition to the $20,000 set on the drug charge. This suspect posted the total in the form of surety bonds on April 12 and was released. She, too, shows to be from Sherman.

Bigham said this case is still under investigation and could result in additional charges being filed.

El Patio Escondido takes Best of Van Alstyne Restaurant

The whole El Patio Escondido staff enjoyed the patrons’ singing along with Big Joe Walker (seated in the center) to “Happy Anniversary To You” recently when they celebrated seven years of being in Van Alstyne. Shown, left to right, are Priscilla, Maria, Aurora, William, Sam, Big Joe, Jonathan, Priscilla, Juan, and Maria. Patrons stood in appreciation of the staff and everything that makes El Patio Escondido the Best of Texoma’s Best Restaurant in Van Alstyne.

Story and photo by Mary Jane Farmer

Just a week after El Patio Escondido Mexican Restaurant celebrated its 7th anniversary of serving Van Alstyne it’s unique Tex-Mex food, its patrons voted it in as the Best of Texoma’s Best Restaurant in Van Alstyne. And owner William Pacheco and his staff are not only thrilled with the honor, but also very aware that it’s their patrons that made this happen.

Pacheco, with his mother, Aurora Lopez, and brother, Juan Pacheco, are the hands-on backbone of this restaurant on West Van Alstyne Parkway, but also have a loyal staff that are just as hard-working and enthusiastic. And, William said just this week when one staff member had to leave suddenly and another immediately jumped in to do her work, “We all do that. We do whatever work needs to be done.”

El Patio Escondido actually began 45 years ago in Dallas, then, too, as a family business. Then, Dallas development forced them to find a new location. William said they moved to Honey Grove for a short while, then to Celina, “in hopes of growing there.” That didn’t work out well, and again, they started looking to relocate. William had a cousin who was leasing the building which is now El Patio Escondido, but not using it. William asked him about using the building. The answer was yes, and the move-in began. And it’s been all uphill since then.

Some of their Dallas customers come up to Van Alstyne, William said, and many of those always order the same items from the menu. And many of their loyal Van Alstyne patrons also have identified their favorite choices, others order something different each time they come in.

Pacheco said, “No matter where we have gone, they seem to find us. We are still here, and we will be here for them, all.”

That also translates into memories, as well. “We have so many memories, it’s a tie between just how many memories are theirs and how many are ours. We’ve had so many celebrations, some good, some unpleasant, but we are all tied together.

“We have made and served special food to babies, to pregnant women on their way to the hospital. So many couples dated here, have married, and continued to come to El Patio now with their kids. We’ve even served some last meals, not always knowing it would be so.”

One of those families that keeps coming back is Dr. Caleb Braddock’s. The reason? “When you live in Texas, you are pretty picky when it comes to Mexican food.  El Patio is my family’s go-to for Mexican because it’s always delicious and authentic and the people are great!  We have 4 kids and the staff is always excellent with them and takes great care of us,” Dr. Braddock said.

El Patio Escondido is unique, too, in the area in that it brings in live music on Monday and Saturday nights, with no cover charge. Music-loving patron Nancy Mathews smiled, while eating a sopapilla, when she said, “The music on Monday nights is always the best. I told Priscilla (wait staff) that I don’t drink tequila and asked if they had any whiskey, she said they do. She made me a special drink that mixes whiskey with pineapple juice, and that’s become my standard drink. And the food, the staff, are just great here.”

The restaurant celebrated its 7th anniversary the Saturday night prior to the Best of Texoma gala, with Big Joe Walker playing music and with every patron, or at least every one who picked up the tab at their table, receiving a $7 credit toward their next visit. And this Saturday night will be a Cinco de Mayo celebration, with the Hunter-Brown duo bringing the tunes.

Some prefer to come on the nights when there isn’t live music, and Wednesdays, when there are enchilada specials, are always popular, as are Taco and Tequila Tuesdays.

Pacheco said, “Our appreciation is tied back to the customers. I’ve never said our food is good. I’ve always let our customers say that for us. There’s enough customers out there that feel our food is good and worth coming back for.”

El Patio Escondido is open Monday-Saturday, with the kitchen open until 9 p.m. Call-in orders can be made at 903-482-5588.

Gary P. Nunn’s Newsletter

Gary P. Nunn’s newsletter. Photos by Mary Jane Farmer (over the years)

Greetings from Cow Creek.
There is so much exciting news to share with you!
Wednesday, April 10 was a day my family and I will never forget. Ruth (wife), my son Julian and I spent April 10 at the Texas Capitol where I was honored with a proclamation by Governor Greg Abbot and two resolutions in Texas House of Representatives and Texas Senate. The resolutions were authored by Representative Kyle Kacal (R-District 12) and Senator Dawn Buckingham (R- District 24) and presented on the House and Senate floors.
I was so humbled to be recognized by the Governor, Senate and The House of Representatives of the great state of Texas, a state that I love dearly. I have traveled over 2 million miles in Texas since I started touring in 1980 and I have met the most incredible people along the way, made lifelong friendships and had experiences I’ll treasure forever. I have had the pleasure to play Texas’ historic dance halls and seen the really true grace of country music. And I take seriously my role to preserve and perpetuate the tradition of country music and Texas history and culture — which is why being recognized by all three branches of our Texas government was such an incredible honor.

The day started out with an early morning press conference that was attended by Representative Kyle Kacal, Senator Dawn Buckingham, Bruce Robison, Kevin Fowler, and Mitch Ballard, Senior Director, Creative, BMI Austin.
I can’t thank Representative Kacal, Senator Buckingham, Bruce Robison, Kevin Fowler and Mitch Ballard enough for their kind words and everything they did to make this day happen. If that wasn’t enough, Mitch Ballard presented me with the BMI Million-Air Award for the song, “Last Thing I Needed, First Thing This Morning.” Of course, Chris

Stapleton’s cutting our song, co-written by Donna Farrar, on his CD, From A Room: Vol I, was a tremendous boost – the CD earned him several awards including Album of the Year at the CMA Awards as well as at the Grammy Awards.  Willie Nelson also won the CMA Album of the Year Award for his album, Always on My Mind, back in 1983 which also included his version, so we are now triple-honored having the song on an Album of the Year by two of the industry’s biggest stars and the Million Air Award!

Gary P. with the late Robert Shaw at Kerrville Folk Festival, in the 1980s.

Then Mitch said he had one more surprise — that the Grand Ole Opry has extended an invitation for me to perform on Saturday, August 3rd. There are no words to express what getting to play at this historic country music venue on such a legendary stage means to me and I hope you will be able to join me in Nashville. Tickets are on sale now by clicking the link, http://bit.ly/2KKzDyS .
I also got to present Governor Abbot with a copy of my book, At Home with the Armadillo, after he presented me with his proclamation. From there, we walked over to House floor where Representative Kyle Kacal presented his resolution and then over to the Senate Floor where Senator Dawn Buckingham presented her resolution. Finally, we ended the day at the Agriculture Museum at the State Capitol where I hosted a meet-a-greet for all the capitol staff.
So, as you can see, 2019 has already been an incredible year for us!  But there’s even more to look forward to! As I mentioned in our holiday newsletter, our son Julian was selected to be a member of the US Rugby Team and he leaves in just a few days to play the FIT World Cup in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, on April 29 -May 4!
We’ve also been busy booking so many shows in theaters and dance halls around the state through the end of the year. My agent has been working harder than ever trying to accommodate all the requests that have been coming in to play all over Texas since I announced that I would be cutting back my schedule and retiring from playing over 100 shows per year at the end of 2020.  I’m sure many of you are wondering, why now? Well, I’ve enjoyed a successful career for almost half a century as a musician, songwriter, publisher, and record producer but I’ve decided that it’s time for me to step away from the pace of playing over 100 shows a year and spend more time with my family. I’m really looking forward to having time with my wife, my two sons, Julian and Lukin, and my three grandbabies and getting the opportunity to do things like travel, visit friends, ride horses, ski and play golf. This doesn’t mean that I won’t play private parties, a wedding, or a special show here and there. I

Gary P. Nunn & The Sons of the Bunkhouse Band

decided to make the announcement now so that my fans have this year and all of next year to come see my shows.  The response from my fans and venues across Texas has been incredible and humbling. Of course, none of this would be possible without the support and friendship you, my fans, and my fellow musicians have given me over these many years and for that, I will be forever grateful
I’m also grateful and humbled that my book that I released last January, At Home with the Armadillo, has sold over 4,000 copies and is still #1 in Biographies of Country & Folk Musicians on Amazon over one year later. If you haven’t had a chance to read it yet, I wrote a lot about my early childhood and family, and the several places we lived and of course, I wrote about my experiences related to the beginning of the Texas Music scene and beyond. You can go to garypnunn.com for an autographed copy (I’m happy to personalize if you wish) and it will be in your hands as soon as the US Mail will deliver it.  It’s also available at Barnes and Noble, Book People, and other major outlets in hardcover or eBook.
My CD, Friends For Life, which also came out last year, is also still doing very well!  It’s a compilation of 12 of my most popular songs that I’ve previously recorded.  This time around I had a lineup of top Texas artists join me in duet performances including Kevin Fowler, Bruce Robison, Wade Bowen, Cory Morrow, Cody Canada, Roger Creager, Kimmie Rhodes, Dale Watson, Cody Johnson, Sunny Sweeney, Red Steagall, and last but certainly not least, Robert Earl Keen and Lyle Lovett joining me in singing the “London Homesick Blues!” I’m hoping that those of you who haven’t gotten a copy yet will take the opportunity to order one for yourself and one for a friend who is a Texas Music fan!

Gary P and Derek Groves at a previous LJT Texas Music Festival

You can get my CD, Friends For Life as well as any of our products in a matter of days by going to garypnunn.com.  Just like my book, I will be happy to autograph each CD and to personalize it if you wish – you can leave instructions for me what you would like me to inscribe.  Both the book and the CD make great gifts!

I’d better wrap this up and get it out!  I would like to offer my sincere thanks and appreciation for the support and friendship you have given me over these many years.  Until we meet again, you can rest assured that I will remain…. Friends For Life!

For our 2019 Schedule click here http://bit.ly/2W5m0LP

Your friend for life,

Gary P Nunn