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Dustin Perkins — Music is in his Blood.

First printed in Paris News, 1.26.18; and in Buddy Magazine, March 2018 issue.Story and photos by Mary Jane Farmer

Dustin Perkins is the consummate musician. Singer, songwriter, guitar picker, and working businessman in the industry.

Perkins started playing music, encouraged by his parents, while still in high school, and soon found himself hosting the open mics at T-Bones in Denison. He played some Wednesday nights around town, but nothing really big enough to shout about.

Then, at a gig hosted by KHYI’s Brett Dillon one night, he asked Dillon just how he did, and wanting an honest reply. Dillon gave one. “All you need now is a band and a CD and you’ll be on your way.”

One of Perkins’ self-penned songs is called “Take That Advice,” and although that song is about another area of life, Perkins took that advice to heart. Within six weeks, he had a CD and a band, and Dillon seems to have been right. Dustin Perkins was on his way. That was about 2010. His first CD was called I Wrote You A Song, and included “Leavin’ Dallas,” a song soon recorded by Casey Donahew. And it included what KHYI’s morning team nicknamed “The Cussin’ Song,” but actually named “Greener Pastures.” Listen to it to understand that nickname.

The Dustin Perkins Band was becoming much sought-after. It became finalists in the Shiner Rising Star and Billy Bob’s Texas band contests, and Dustin himself a finalist in the Rusty Wier singer/songwriter contest. But it wasn’t about the contests for him or for the band members. They wanted to play songs. And he wanted to write more songs. And occasionally sing solo, but more often with the band. They practiced together — often — and got better with every session.

Music is in Perkins’ blood. His grandfather, Howard Strause, put two songs on 45-rpm records in the mid-50s. “Seven Lonely Days” and “I Really Don’t Want To Know” received considerable radio play in the Northern states.

“My grandpa was 24 years old when he recorded those,” Perkins said after spending an evening at his grandparents’ house in Sherman. “I want to show you what I had on the radio,” Strause told his grandson. “We sat down and listened.” Dustin said the 45 record had come from the juke box in a cafe, and it was worn and so scratchy in places as to have been almost inaudible, but Dustin said he sat in awe listening to his grandfather. “It was, well, wow. I didn’t know that part of his life. To actually hear that record that night, I know music has got to be in the blood and it’s bred into me.”

About the band

The band, at that time, was Colton Gilbreath on lead guitar, Nathan Brown on drums, and Jason (Fuzzy) Smith on bass, with Dustin on rhythm guitar and vocals.

Then, come along another major change — marriage. And about then was when Dustin gave up his full-time career as an Oncor lineman.

The calendar moving forward into 2012, Dustin was back in the studio. The second CD came out, titled The Next Step, with more Dustin Perkins penned tunes that have since become his signature songs. “Bonnie & Clyde,” often requested at DP band gigs. “Luckiest Man Alive” and “Dashboard Lights.”

Grandfather Strause had passed away, and Dustin’s hardest song he ever wrote for far that incredible musician and he performed as his granddad’s funeral.

Perkins recorded one more CD, called Words, which includes the “last known performance of Howard Strause,” as Dustin wrote on the cover. “Mr. Dream Man” is a rather haunting cradlesong and Mr. Strause’s aged harmonies, in a very Ray Price voice, are distinct behind Perkins’ leads.

Then, pain and change really hit even harder, when Dustin’s father-in-law passed away and left everything on his Oklahoma ranch for Dustin to handle. He turned cowboy really quickly. A son was born — no pain there, just pure heart-joy. Then a heartbreaking divorce. And new jobs. And life in the Antlers area. And starting over — again.

Perkins gave up the band, gave up traveling to sing his songs in 2013. But, not before he had gone on his last adventure, which he called his “Bag of Bones” tour. He set out with a full tank of gasoline in his van, some CDs and T-Shirts, and ambition. He busked and cajoled his way to the Northwest U.S. and back again, playing his songs and making new fans all the up and down that west coast. That ended when he powered his still-mobile van into Hank’s Texas Grill in McKinney where a bevy of fans and friends waited to welcome him home.

Though Dustin Perkins quit music in 2013, he’s back in the saddle again. The same original band of Brown, Smith, and Gilbreath again side by side with him, and multi-instrumentalist Jared Mitchell, who learned to play keyboards just to join this band, adding to the sounds.

Colton Galbraith and Dustin Perkins by Ken Maxwell

For Dustin, it’s also back to weekly practice for them, too. He’s still wanting to put only professional concerts out there for his fans, the older ones who are so glad he’s writing and singing again, and the new ones he’ll be making during the upcoming years. They practice almost every Monday, and set up a cell-phone live feed on the Dustin Perkins Facebook page for everyone who wants to check in and listen. And hundreds, even into the thousands, do.

“I’m writing some now, usually going down the road with my phone in hand,” Perkins said. “Then we get together for band practice and I throw some ideas at the guys. They throw some back at me. It’s always great to get their opinion and take on it. We’ve played together for a long time, but we’re all so different. Colton is more bluesy, Nathan is a punk rocker, and we add their ideas in to make our music unique to us.”

The differences now vs. then, though, are that neither Dustin nor those in the band are wanting to hit the road, to tour for days or weeks at a time. They are all new parents, and want to be with those families. And Dustin no longer wants to take care of all the business end of the industry. “Oh, I may get a few new T-shirts,” he said, but reminded himself to be careful and not over-order.

Through it all, Dustin has his major priority set on his son, Tuck, almost two years old. “I get him Tuesdays through Fridays and every other weekend,” Dustin said. “Now that little boy takes up so much of my time. It’s amazing to watch him learn and grow. He loves everything to do with music. He dances and sings. He plays the piano and my guitar. It’s like a new project, an inspiration, for me. What I’m after now is making him happy and watching him grow,” the proud papa said.

One of Perkins’ new songs is about finding oneself, he said. He has bought acreage in Antlers where he plans to build his permanent home, to be close to Tuck. The song is called “Losing My Mind” he said. “It’s about being in the city and the chaos of the city and finding your own place. For me, it’s Southeast Oklahoma. This is the place I want to be.”

He and those around him will be starting the planning of the 2nd year of Mountain Jam, held on a mountainside tucked in between three other mountain ranges, or as they are more often called… Oklahoma hills. That will happen sometime in early- to mid-May.

“But, it’s also a good time for making some music, some noise, and getting back out there,” said the once-retired musician. “We’re getting nothing but better with every practice. The hardest part is getting ourselves wrapped around those old songs we did years ago. We have to play better now than then. And we are,” he added with a touch of modesty but more pride in his voice. “It’s sounds more mature now than it was when we were really making a go at it.

“I may not chase it full-time, but we gotta be out there and hit the road again. Blaze a trail. We’re even throwing around the idea of getting back into the studio. Not right now, but eventually, maybe an acoustic, minimalist kind of record.”

When asked what his best asset is right now, Perkins scratched his head a bit, then answered, “Right my greatest strength is being hard-headed. I’m very determined, if nothing else.”

Yep, that’s the strength that began when he hit his first open mic, so many years ago when he was just 15 years old.

The Dustin Perkins Band will be playing at Hank’s Texas Grill in McKinney on Saturday, February 17 with Colton Gilbreath’s own band, Sons of Fannin openingthen at Gilley’s/Choctaw Casino in Durant on March 17, following the Chris Stapleton concert in the Grand Theater.

Aaron Watson Band coming to Choctaw-Grant, Okla.

Story and photos by Mary Jane Farmer, first printed in The Paris News, Jan. 12,2018, edition.

About two and a half years ago, the Aaron Watson band played at the Choctaw Casino (Grant) Event Center, and held the crowd captive for nearly two full hours. He was the first to play there, of the Red Dirt genre of bands, and packed the house, He was also the first of the Red Dirt bands to play at the Grand Theater in Durant’s Choctaw Casino, about a year ago. Again, totally packed the sold-out house.

And the upcoming January 27 Aaron Watson Band concert at the Event Center in Grant is another sold-out show.

Just as the cowboys in his songs, sometimes called vaqueros depending on the subject, are timeless, so is Watson’s music. He puts the cowboy back in country. He always shows his very best side, complete with stories to go along with his songs. He keeps his individual label for his homespun recordings. His latest recording is actually named Vaquero, a 16-song set of nothing but genuine bright lights of genuine country music.

In spite of his ever-growing national fame, or maybe because of it, Watson declines to sign with a national Nashville promotions company. A song he down on his The Underdog CD, explains his choosing to remain an independent artist. He quotes Sam Houston, and uses this as his recurring line — “I’d rather be an old fence post in Texas than the king of Tennessee.”  Called “Fence Post,” the song also was written, according to the opening dialogue in the recording, “A guy who can’t even playing a D chord on a guitar, telling someone with a dream that they won’t get far. This song is dedicated to all those other dogs like me…”

A continual favorite of so many fans is his “Bluebonnets (Julie’s song),” about that broken vacated heart one has when one loses a child — no matter the age of that child — or loses any loved one. “.gone, long gone, like bluebonnets in the spring, We’re only here for a little while… Pack light and love heavy, give it all your heart and soul, so in the end you won’t regret one thing. Life is like bluebonnets in the spring.”

And that tender type song is not that unusual for Watson. He penned the much-covered hit,July in Cheyenne” about rodeo champion Lane Frost. So many great songs about life on life’s terms.

Then he can turn around, and the band is right behind him, and belt out “Freight Train” and the listener can just hear the locomotive wheels on the tracks and the popular “Getaway Truck.” Quick and easy and full of the beat that makes a listener just have to stomp his boots on the hardwood floor.

OK, there is just a tiny tidbit of Nashville in Aaron’s shows — he often uses the same point-at-someone-in-the-crowd motion that Luke Bryan and Dustin Lynch and others of the Nashville ilk use. But then, who knows maybe Luke and Dustin are copying Watson’s “commercial appeal” stage actions. Could be, it just could be!

The Aaron Watson Band consists of the usual instruments — guitars, drums, bass— plus a fiddle. All well orchestrated and animated to make it all more fun for everybody.

Watson generally doesn’t do encores, but instead goes and stays to his merch table as long as it takes for everyone to say hello. Sometimes, it takes him a little time to get off the stage, because he often just knuckle-bumps and high-fives those down-front fans, often handing out his special guitar pick… his name on one side and “Pick Jesus” on the other side.

Aaron’s wild spirit and warm smile are identifiable and contagious. Those whose spirits are more introverted find themselves as much a fan as the extroverts.

The land that made Watson what it is, what fueled that wild spirit, is West Texas, or more specifically Abilene. And his music doesn’t stray much, if at all, from the cowhand/west Texas/family values implanted in him. Rumor has it, based on people’s statements who know him off the stage and off the road, that whenever he can, he gets home to be at church with his wife and kids on Sundays.

Aaron Watson has been professionally in the music business for more than 17 years and issued about a dozen albums, each with rememberable and emulated songs. He’s traveled through the U.S. and Europe, where they Texas music lovers can also identify with him, his songs, his values, and stomp their boots on sawdust-covered dance floors. His last CD is Vaquero. Which debuted at an unprecedented No. 1 on the Billboard Country Albums Chart. A first time, ever, for an independent artist. He said that accomplishment definitely raises his own bar higher for his next recording project. Betcha he’ll continue to record those dancehall shuffle, dustbowl storm, cowboy, rodeo, family, love tales.

One of the things that contributes to his success is his work ethic. The man gets up before dawn to write his songs, and no matter what the big-dogs suggest he do or change, he doesn’t change. He is consistent in his variety of subjects and ability to create unique tunes to accent those lyrics. And then he remembers those lyrics, some that are so tough they might drive word-master Kevin Fowler crazy. And when he writes a love song, it isn’t about going to hang out on a tailgate on old dirt road.

Let’s just leave it as:  Aaron Watson is a wrangler of songs and a roper of people.

Baraoke at The River Bar

Carrie

Story and photos by Mary Jane Farmer, First published in The Paris News, Jan. 7, 2018, editon) 

There were several common characteristics among those who sang in Tuesday night’s Baraoke, aka karaoke with Barry Diamond as host, at The River Bar & Grill in Grant. Those would be respect, support, and commitment.

Karaoke is the art of, usually, non-professionals who like to sing and are willing to do that with a microphone and good sound system in front of an audience. They sing along to pre-recorded music and the words are on a screen on the stage.

Diamond said that he’s been hosting Tuesday night karaoke, which begins at 8 p.m., for five years now. And he’s begun hosting it at the Paris Elks Lodge, starting at 7:30 p.m. on Thursday nights. Diamond is also a popular on-air personality with K95.5 radio.

 

The crowd was smaller this week than usual, with 12 singers instead of the usual two or three dozen, Diamond said. Whether it was because of being right after the holidays or because of the cold weather remained an unknown, but that was fine for those who were there to sing, because instead of one or sometimes two songs, they each got at least three songs Tuesday night.

Tiffany, from Paris, started with The Judds’ 80s hit “Grandpa.” Her style set a

Leonard

dynamic pace, but wasn’t duplicated. She left the corner stage and sang directly to children and others in the audience.

Tiffany said she sang in the school choir and at church as a young child. A few years ago, she tried out for American Idol and intends to make a play to get on The Voice. She sings in the car and when walking through a grocery store, out loud. But it’s the karaoke that pulled her through the toughest part of her life — the loss of her 2-day-old baby son.

“I was pregnant when I started coming out, and singing, and meeting everyone else. He was my first child. I didn’t come for a while after his birth and his death, and most of them had heard what happened. When I did return, no one asked a bunch of questions, they just all hugged me and said they loved me and have been really supportive ever since.”

So why karaoke? Tiffany said, “It’s so much fun to watch everybody and see them get more comfortable with this and that, like it did with me, carries into everything they

Tiffany

do. This is like family. There are so many people who can sing around our area, and it’s good to have a place where they can. I’m pretty shy, but here’s its different.” She added that her first karaoke experience was when she was 3-year-old and she literally threw up afterward. “Now I can do this. And I like to sing whatever I like, including blues.”

Diamond said that, though he has a large catalogue of karaoke background music, sometimes people ask for something he doesn’t have, but he tells them he’ll have it next week — “And I do have it for them the next time,” he said.

Johnny B, wearing a white Baraoke T-shirt, sang, “I Always Get Lucky With You,” the classic Merle Haggard song. Johnny said he’d been singing karaoke for 18 years, and been going to the one at The River Bar since it started. He’s already been to the one at the Elks Lodge, too. When asked what his best experience was, Johnny B. gave an answer that was as unique as it might come for any singer.

“I drove a cab,” he said. “And once, at a karaoke night, a guy from Denver asked for my autograph on something, and I learned he hung that on his office wall. Then, once when I was in the cab, I got a cell phone call, and it was that same guy. He said I was on speaker phone and would I please sing him a song. So I did. Then, I heard lots of clapping and shouting, and that’s when I learned he had about 150 people listening to me sing through that phone.”

Mark, who came for the first time and went before anyone could really get to talk with

Mark

him, sang a classic parenting song about being your son’s idol — “I’m Watching You, Dad, (now ain’t that cool.) Mark had as much, if not more stage presence, including use of his microphone. He didn’t stick around for a second song, and Diamond said that, wherever Mark came from, he hopes Mark will come back another night.

Colby, from Hugo, chose the classic John Anderson “Seminole Wind,” a touching song and one he delivered with the empathy that Anderson emits with he sings it. And yet it was unique to Colby. “You can be original when doing covers,” he said. What makes this Baraoke special for Colby? “This is where, besides church, is where I started singing in public. It’s the people and the atmosphere, it’s family, and so close to home.” Colby said his favorite style of music is gospel, and his second song was “I Believe.”

Rossie

“The reason I started singing at all,” Colby said, “is that when I was 12 years old, I had cancer in my throat. Doctors told me I would never be able to talk, and that gave me a reason to defy. I started singing. The cancer has been gone a while now and the doctors said I really “pulled off a good ‘un.”

And Rossi, from Paris also, said she usually does the same songs, but started out that

night with “Daddy’s Hands.” A divorcee, she’s used this as a social tool to meet people and get on with her life. “I’ve been singing for about seven years. It’s funk, and the camaraderie here is awesome. The regulars, well, some are not that much fun, but most are. And here, we can break the monotony of the week.”

Rossie added, “And I love Barry’s style. He’s so personable, and makes you feel like a rock star.”

Diamond said he discovered that’s important to the singers, that it helps them, even the shyer ones, get up on the little stage and sing their hearts out. He gives each one a grand introduction and a grand thank you, asking the room to clap also. And the room does.

Jacob

Diamond also said that not everybody comes here to sing. Some — usually family and friends, but also others — come to watch. “And there’s the one couple,” he said as he pointed to the back of the room, “who comes to dance.” The couple was up on their makeshift dance floor — the aisles — most of the time.

Oh, yeah… each singer over the age of 18 receives two drawing tickets and at the night, they stir the tickets up in a bingo-style wheel and draw two. Those two people receive $100 each.

Johnny B. said he was tickled when he won $100 — “Finally, someone paid me for singing,” he laughed.

 

 

 

TT and CC on the same stage

Short story and photos by Mary Jane Farmer

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Now in their 10th year together, the Turnpike Troubadours are playing more gigs and playing those gigs farther away from their native Oklahoma than they were even three years ago.

They handle fame well, still being grateful for their fans — their smiles at Meet n Greets show that — and continually bringing new and unique songs to those fans.

The Turnpike Troubadours are made up of RC Edwards on bass, Kyle Nix on fiddle, Ryan Engleman on guitar, Evan Felker on lead vocals, Gabriel Pearson on drums, and Hank Early on keyboards and accordion. And they all kick in with vocals.

The Troubadours played the Event Center at Grand Theater in late December, to a sold-out crowd. They covered many of their older tunes, but many off the new CD, A Long Way From Your Heart, of which the first release “Housefire” has already reached No. 1 spot on numerous charts.

Opening was Charley Crockett and his band. A real treat to watch and to listen to, definitely worth a trip to a Charley Crockett concert if you haven’t already seen one. If you have, you know exactly what I’m talking about!